I won’t sit here and claim to be the most considerate person in the world because quite frankly….I am not. But I do always put peoples thoughts and needs before my own. No matter who they are. Unless I don’t like them….because then I don’t care.
But we’ll call me person “A”. Person “A” stays home all day, cooks (if there’s shit to cook), changes multiple shitty diapers a day, deals with cranky kids ALL day, cleans the house (sometimes I just vacuum so it looks like I cleaned), does the laundry, runs errands if they need to be ran, etc. Person “B”….easiest. fucking. life. ever. Does whatever person “B” wants whenever person “B” wants with no regard for person “A”.
Ok well now since we all know I’m person “A”…..I am getting beyond frustrated and irritated and ANGRY and almost every little thing these days. I have no time for myself unless the kids are SLEEPING. If I disappeared for an entire day…..wait I would never do that because my husband hasn’t watched the kids alone enough for me to even be comfortable leaving the baby with him for more than 4 hours tops.
I just want 5 minutes. Whether its to read a book. Take a poop. I don’t care.
I get that we lead very and i mean VERY hectic lives. He works full-time and owns his own business that he works part-time and I too own my own business that gets worked part-time.
I JUST WANT 5 MINUTES! I WANT YOU TO BE CONSIDERATE AND ASK ME ABOUT MY DAY! ASK ME IF I NEED ANYTHING! NOT MAKE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU!